If you’ve been a mean girl and abused your boyfriend and provoked him into ending the relationship, you can still ask him to give you a second chance. It may be next to impossible, but it can still be done. Here are some tips to help you go:

Give it time to heal

If you were the reason the relationship ended, it won’t be easy for your boyfriend to give you another chance. Give him some space to be alone and internalize everything that has happened between the two of you. If the wound has healed, it will be easier to accept you again.

I gave a genuine apology

Say sorry from the bottom of your heart. An apology is a very powerful tool to get another chance. And when he gives you a chance to explain yourself, do your best and don’t screw it up.

change for the better

If you decide to change something about yourself, let it be for the better. It could be physical, getting a makeover, changing your hairstyle, and choosing better clothes. But be careful not to put all your effort into your appearance, change your bad habits too.

Learn from your past mistakes and move on from there.

Make your past experiences a way of teaching him the things he needs to learn about life. These things can make you a better person if you allow the past to be a lesson. Sometimes mistakes help us learn the hard way and sometimes it’s what we need to learn.

confess and tell the truth

It is very difficult to tell your boyfriend the details of your wrongdoing, but when he asks you specifically, tell him everything and tell him the truth. Your response may hurt him more, but it could be a way to win back his trust.

try to flatter him

Let him know all the wonderful things about him and how special he is to you still. Let him know his worth and how much you realize the world is better when he’s around.

Forget the past and start over

Help your boyfriend to forget the horrible past and start to trust the happy memories. It will not be easy, you have to be patient and take your time to recover everything you lost. If you don’t want to go through all the trouble to get your ex back and ask him to give you another chance, never do anything stupid that will make him walk away from you.