So you see the girl in the club. She looks cute. You want to invite her out of it, but you want her to come to you. Well I have news for you my friend, it’s not that easy. There is a special charm that men have to develop to attract that girl and what I am going to do is share some tips on how you can do it in this article.

While it is a common misconception among us men, that in order to attract a woman you need to polish up, dress in a Valentino suite and also wear a gold plated Rolex watch. Well, if you’re looking for that materialistic girl, then yes, that’s what you need. But if you’re looking for that quiet, attractive girl who doesn’t care much about trinkets, suites, or the car, tone it down a bit and you’ll see the difference.

So how do you go about toning it down? Don’t wear t-shirts that show off your bulging biceps or your fat belly if you have either of those, strong perfume is NOT a good idea. Other than that, try not to be too assertive when it comes to conversations, relax and calm down, learn the girl’s interests before jumping in the deep end and asking her out dancing or pretty much anything for that matter.

You should also be careful when taking steps towards the drinking part. Be understanding and be careful not to get drunk, it’s a very bad idea, drink enough to make you moderately drunk but no more than that so you can drive safely. Other than that, communication is VERY important. If you don’t know how to speak properly or get your message across in the exact way you want, well, friend, you need to start working on it ASAP. I mean I can’t express how important this is to attracting women.

These are just a few tips to help you learn how easy it is to attract women, just work at it and you’ll see the difference soon enough.