”Be careful what you wish for”, the famous saying that we all blurt out in our day-to-day conversations. This saying is so powerful that I associate it with the “law of attraction”, attracting equals. What we take out there is what we receive, do you believe in that law, that we are part of the universal matrix of energy and frequencies? The energy we spend out there we receive the same. We are governed by the laws of the universe in which we live, what others may call “karma”. People often say that they find the things they don’t like manifesting in their reality faster than what they really love. What I find is how our mindset is designed, we are creatures of fear, and let’s remember, fear is as much an emotion as happiness and sadness. We are very afraid of lack of money, that nobody loves us or having a bad day. What if we program our minds to think positively? Do you think then we will attract what we love? We have to be very careful with what we say because when we infuse emotion into the things we say, the things we say attract them. The flip side of this is how difficult it is to be positive when you’re not in the headspace or when your environment doesn’t support the emotion.

A few years ago I bought the renowned book ”The Secret” to try to understand how the law of attraction works and also to help me change my way of thinking. I began to understand that we can create our own reality and our own sky. I am from a Christian background and growing up I was taught that when we die we go to heaven (if we are good) or we go to hell! I lived my life according to that rule, until I went through some life experiences that led me to search for “my truth”. I realized that I am my own creator of the reality I want to live in, I can create and enjoy heaven, while still on this earth. Live life to the fullest and live a life of peace, abundance and positivity, all governed by the greatest law of all, ”Love”. As you live your life to the fullest with love and positivity, everything around you will support a beautiful reality. I have not reached that last state of life, I am a work in progress and I live day by day reminding myself that I am a co-creator of my reality. What are the steps we must take to lead a satisfactory reality?

First It begins with us, our inner being, the soul within us. Having a mind free from judgments, free from negative influences, does not mean that we are free from the struggles of life. It is important to recognize how we deal with the setbacks that come our way. I remember how I used to fight slow drivers in front of me, that used to annoy me so much I was cursing in my car, flailing and flailing, guess what? The more it bothered me, the more I had occurrences of slow drivers. After reading and understanding the law of attraction, I realized that I was actually attracting more of this, so I decided to change my mindset and accept slow drivers, sometimes acting like I didn’t notice them, I slowly started to notice that it was not happening as much as before. I became more patient and accepted that the driver in front of me had every right to be in that place at that given time.

Believing in your own worth, valuing who you are, and loving yourself are keys to finding your higher self and attracting the things you want. This is not magic, it is something that each and every one of us is entitled to. Spread your wings and discover your potential and, above all, love yourself more than you have ever loved!