Never get emotionally attached to uncertain situations

One of the biggest mistakes men make is thinking that a woman they just met, that they’re talking to, is a sure thing. He doesn’t know this woman’s motives or if she’s worth it.

Men have put themselves in bad situations because they thought a woman was a sure thing, but she had ulterior motives. It may seem like things are going great, but the woman could just be looking for attention. She may be flirting with you at the club, but she’s just trying to make her boyfriend jealous, who’s standing a few feet away watching the entire interaction. When she gets what she wants, she’ll leave you there looking confused when she doesn’t come home with you.

Being stuck with a woman (who you’re not even in a relationship with) is a recipe for disaster.

This happens to men in the friend zone. They will build this friendship, hoping that it will transform into a romantic relationship. Unfortunately, this girl is not interested because she has her eyes on other men whom she does not consider her friends. These men will be hooked on this girl and think that being “the one who is always there for her” will turn that friendship into a sexual relationship.

If you want to please women, you have to operate from a position of power. These men that she dates, she is interested in them for a reason. There is something about these men that turns her on and it’s not because they listen to all her problems.

This doesn’t mean you can’t listen to a woman and comfort her, but it should be because you care about her, not to fake interest just to get into her pants. Women are very intuitive and know that this is what he really wants to do, but they are too scared to let him know that this is what he really wants, so she will use this to her advantage and treat him like a shoulder to cry on when other men who really interest her do not treat her in a special way.

Why you shouldn’t confess your love for your crush like they do in the movies

Have you ever seen those movies of the guy who had a crush on this girl since they were in third grade and confesses his love to her in a big, dramatic way? Just because women like the idea of ​​this happening, they don’t want to be the girl this is happening to.

Why?

You have fantasy and reality.

Women like the IDEA of a man confessing his love to her and making her feel special. The reality is that women are very attracted to men who ignore them.

Think about the IDEA of having 7 girlfriends (not “friends with rights”) for each day of the week. This sounds like a big fantasy, but the reality is that you would burn out and find it hard to keep these 7 girls happy.

A man who confesses his love for a woman in a dramatic way has transferred power from him to her. Yes, you can be affectionate with your girlfriend or wife, but a woman you haven’t established a romantic relationship with might walk away scared from such a dramatic situation.

The men who get the girl usually keep things simple and allow her to have all those emotions stirring in her.

Are you wearing your heart on your sleeve?

“I think this is it!”

Have you ever said that about every woman you meet? When a man waits for fireworks, it is because he has his heart on his sleeve. Men who are successful with women know and understand that it is about controlling their emotions rather than being at their mercy.

“Why would you say that?”

Women are very emotional. They need men to keep that emotional energy grounded. This is why many men who are overly emotional, even if they are “traditionally attractive,” reject women. Women get turned on by men who can connect with her emotionally, but who are not victims of their emotions.

Sometimes rejection is a good thing

This is not something you want to hear right after you’ve been rejected by a woman you’re really attracted to. However, if you ask yourself, why did you like that woman in the first place?

Was it because she was pretty?

Was it because she had a nice body?

Was he a nice person or did you just see how good he looked on the outside?

Once you take away her looks and how much you want to sleep with her, was it so bad to be rejected after all?

Don’t expect fireworks, but you want to get a result

Sometimes those results won’t be to your liking, but at least you know where you stand with this specific woman. The sooner you know, the better. I’m not saying that the two of you can’t begin to build a relationship over time, but you’ll know when you focus on getting a result to expect fireworks.

Let’s say you tell a woman that you want to go out with her. She turns you down and says you’re not her type (she’s very direct. Most women aren’t that direct). At least you’re not torturing yourself with uncertainty. If you get rejected, at least you know it’s time to move on.

Even the most handsome and charismatic men do not get the girl

If you are one of those men who think you are too ugly to get attractive women, think again. Even the most attractive men are shunned and may even be overlooked by men who look like swamp creatures by general standards.

It’s not how you look, but how you make a woman feel. The goal of this is to make her feel all these emotions for you. When you can control your emotions and how you interact with women, you will start to notice that more and more women will be attracted to you. Your problem will be which one you will choose!