Have you ever spent hours and hours thinking about a certain guy and trying to figure out what kind of thoughts he has regarding you? Spotting a guy isn’t rocket science, and it’s not difficult at all.

In fact, the technique that I will share with you today is so simple and easy to use that you will feel almost silly for not having discovered it sooner. So what is the sure way to read a man’s mind and find out what he’s thinking?

Here it is –

Always focus on his actions, instead of his words …

Sounds simple right? But the problem is that most women don’t know how to use this to their advantage. You see, whenever you feel that there is a conflict between what a guy says and what he does, always follow what he does, since the truth will always be in his actions.

So if a guy constantly tells you that he loves you and adores you, yet he gives you the average treatment and you don’t see or feel this love in his actions, then the reality is that he really doesn’t love you that much.

He only says it to keep you from feeling hurt. The fact is, if he really loved you, then you would see it in his actions and, as I have already said, if there is a conflict between his actions and his words, then always follow his actions.

Now the big question is: this all seems so easy, but why are so many women still struggling in this area?

Well, they fight because they give the man the benefit of the doubt. They assume that if he said something, he would definitely follow it up with action soon.

But the problem is this: even when the woman witnesses that a man is only speaking what he speaks but is not speaking it, they do not confront him, but wait for him to finally fulfill his promises. And, as usual, if you are like most women, then you know very well how frustrated you feel during this process.

So the solution is really simple: Your job is to first observe what a man says and then judge his character based on whether he follows that talk with solid action or not. If you keep making a million promises, but never deliver on them with solid actions, then you’re just wasting your time.

Another important point to keep in mind here is that you should never read too much between the lines. When you see that a man’s words are not aligned with his actions, do not try to investigate further into the matter and look for the reasons why there is a conflict between his words and his actions.

Your actions represent the truth, therefore that is the only thing you need to focus on to clearly read your mind, every time.