Did your ex boyfriend leave you for another girl? Do you still love your ex and want to win him back? Are you willing to do everything possible to save your relationship? Most women feel the same way, especially if what they had is something very special. How would you feel if he left your relationship of five years, for example, for a girl he just met?
Seeing your ex boyfriend courting someone else really hurts, especially if you haven’t gotten over your broken relationship. No matter what your friends say, they just can’t stop you from reconnecting with him in an attempt to win him back. But how exactly are you going to do that without seeming too desperate and needy? And how can you get close to him without fighting with his new girl?
What you want to do is difficult. However, if you follow these steps, you will have your man back in no time.
Tip #1: Look beautiful
Dress up every time you go out and wear that charming smile you always had. Move gracefully, like you don’t lock yourself in your room and cry a river. Never let anyone, especially your new girl, see that you feel bad. Send them the impression that you already moved.
Tip #2: Send your ex a letter
Write a letter expressing how you feel about the breakup, how you feel right now. Be honest with how you feel but never overdo it. Tell him how much you love him. It will also help if you remind him of the great memories you shared together. Give him plenty of time to absorb the content and allow him to make the next move.
Tip #3: Invite him over for a friendly dinner
Ask him out to his favorite restaurant and spend some time together. Make sure to give him the impression that you are doing this just to get him and that you don’t expect anything in return. Keep your conversation very light and fun. Remind him of the highest moments of your relationship. At that point, your ex-boyfriend will start to figure out if he still has feelings for you.
Tip #4: Don’t pick a fight
It’s understandable that knowing your ex-boyfriend is courting someone else feels like plunging a knife through your heart. But never fight with his new girl. If she does, he’ll only look desperate and needy. He tries to be casual with her, even though deep down, he really wants to kill her. You don’t want your ex-boyfriend to label you immature, jealous, and mean.
No woman likes to know that her ex-boyfriend is courting someone else, especially not long after their breakup. Women, as always, are forced to strive to maintain their relationship. But if you think you’ve done enough, let him decide. It’s not your loss if he still chooses to go with the new girl; you can always find a better man who knows what you’re really worth.
